Hello from Kindu, Democratic Republic of the Congo. I apologize for the slow rate in updating my blog, but communication here is almost non-existent.
Kindu is the center of United Nations Security Forces fighting the ongoing insurgency and the basic lack of government in this region. Women and children are the object of attack for so many of the insurgent forces and it is overwhelming to see the horrible impact of these atrocities.
The DRC is the rape capital of the world. So many of the women have had their husbands murdered in front of them and their children. Then the women and some of the children have been raped and sexually exploited. Once this happens, they are considered outcasts by both sides of this conflict. We hope through this trip to further support building a center for those affected by this violence to once again enter society and live a fruitful life.
We have had much difficulty getting here. Travel in the Congo is a challenge at best. It seems that at every corner, the government challenges the attempts to provide the necessary information to make this project "work." Nevertheless, we are making progress.
Yesterday upon our arrival, we were greeted by more than 2,000 children singing and dancing while lining the road to the proposed center. The ladies walked with us around the road of the area singing songs of joy and praise for our presence. It was most humbling.
Today we worshipped with the leadership of the church community, walked the proposed center site and will be interviewing the brick makers who are already at work. Tomorrow we will interview many of the victims and leadership for the effort before going to West Congo to meet with leadership there.
The proposed center will allow for training, counseling and support of victims for up to three months. It is desperately needed and will cost approximately $350,000 to complete. I believe we can do it together. Please come back for more as we are able.
An update from Dr. David Lewis, Executive Director of the WiseHeart Foundation, who is travelling to India and the Congo this week.
It has been a long trip thus far. After flying for two days, we reached our first stop in India. Last night I got to deliver the commencement address to the largest graduation class of pastors from the Bible College in the school's 17-year history. I was fortunate to be there in the beginning and to see the growth of the program - the quality and commitment of these men and women is awesome. God is doing a great work here for sure.
After the ceremony concluded I got a rare treat. Back in the 1990’s, I taught a mini-course each year at Bible school in the northern state of Rajasthan. Over a four year stretch, I had the privilege of teaching some of the same students year after year. Last night, following the commencement, three pastors around the country approached me with big smiles on their faces. I immediately recognized one of the men as a former student. I then realized that all of these men, now married with families and active in the ministry in India, were all part of those classes. The wife of the missionary I work closely beside in India was a member of the first class I taught. They all graduated together. When it was confirmed I would be coming to India, she let them know and they formed a mini-reunion with me, traveling hours to take part in the ceremony. They said they wanted to see me, visit with me, and thank me for being a part of their Christian walk. I was extremely humbled. What a small thing I had done years ago was still remembered as a milestone in their lives. You very seldom receive validation in your ministry that also confirms what you did was something God truly used. I am so thankful I got the chance to see these fine men of faith in a difficult ministry.
We covet your prayers as we continue the trip. Tomorrow we leave for Africa and the Congo. We will be visiting the future site of a planned home to help the victims of rape and other female violence as a result of the ongoing wars there. Please pray for the success and safety of this part of our work and may God bless the work we are attempting to do. If I have internet access, which is doubtful, I will post more. Just know we covet your prayerful support.
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